These two Signs tend to engage in heavy, heated arguments. Their connection is
highly fervent and often argumentative, because both partners have jealous
tendencies. Scorpio tends to be more enduring, but is also more possessive than
Aries -- and can lash out when their feelings get hurt. Despite their
differences in emotional attachment, both partners love risk and taking chances;
this is not a boring relationship! Aries and Scorpio can have lots of escapades
together. They may have trouble understanding one another -- Aries is a true
extrovert, totally up-front and open, while Scorpio is more inward, emotional
and, at times, scheming. Sometimes a truce is necessary to keep things running
smoothly!
When the two of you meet, the instantaneous Ram may dance around the slow
Scorpion for a time, but the fascination will be deep. When the Scorpion finally
allows the Ram to make the first move, there will be fireworks in the bedroom as
fiery Mars meets passionate Mars, especially if other points harmonize in your
charts. In the relationship between Aries and Scorpio adjustment is the key. You
both need to give more than you get. This association requires extra
understanding. At first, each may be somewhat aggravated about each other. In
time, with work, the very thing that caused the annoyance may lead to personal
fulfilment. You can't force growth in this alliance go along with the changes.
Ram and Scorpion are a powerful match but an uneasy mix, a fascinating
combination that needs work. Traditionally, Mars rules Aries, a Fire Sign and
Scorpio, a Water Sign. Meaning the warrior spirit surges in each of you. The Ram
is the 'heart on the sleeve', passionate, impatient, idealistic and surging with
naive energy tope. The Scorpion is cool in a crisis, intensely private,
obsessively determined and ready to wait for the moment. Effectively, if Aries
wants to be happy, Aries needs to be first and best. Scorpio may need for Aries
to cool it from time to time. Scorpio is a strong individual, an extremely good
friend, a formidable enemy, and prone to intense likes and dislikes. Scorpio
lives in the world of black and white. Scorpio has little time for superficial
people, places or things.
Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by the Planet Mars (Passion), and Scorpio is
also ruled by Pluto (Power). When two people with Mars's energy come together,
it's like two soldiers on a battleground -- they're either allies or deadly
enemies. Mars also represents passion, so Aries and Scorpio tend to have an
exciting time together -both in the bedroom and out of it! Arguments are normal
in such a challenge-oriented couple - and making up is definitely something to
look forward to! Pluto adds extra intensity to this.
Scorpio prefers deep commitment, deep conversation and deep thoughts. If Scorpio
can't tell it like it is, Scorpio prefers to keep quiet. It should be mentioned
that Scorpio has quite a few secrets. Scorpio has forgiveness issues that tend
to make personal relationships challenging. Try not to disturb the Scorpion's
calm exterior. Scorpio is a lake. If you want to reach the depths, don't splash
on the surface. Negotiations need to begin now, but your book of life doesn't
have a word for 'negotiate', creating disappointment if things don't go at
speed. The Scorpion can teach you about pace and judgement if you allow it. If
you don't, remember that the Ram is explosive, but the Scorpion volcanic. The
mixture of Fire and Water here creates enough steam to drive a turbine!
Scorpio has proven the ability to hold on. Scorpio's staying power is second to
none. Now Scorpio needs to learn to let go. Every day Scorpio needs to find
something to sell, give away, throw out or burn. If Scorpio wants to get the
most out of life, Scorpio needs to let go of old crap, literally, figuratively,
and most of all, psychologically. When Aries and Scorpio get together it can be
the kind of relationship where they both wonder how they ever managed apart.
Both Signs love power and they can achieve just about anything -- as long as
they learn to share the spotlight. Scorpio is much focused; once they set their
sights on Aries, Aries is most likely powerless to resist! Scorpio has a deeper
and more complex devotion to this relationship than does Aries.
The Aries nature is legendary. The innocent Ram is quick to anger, quick to
forgive. The Scorpion on the other hand has a long fuse and a longer memory, for
Scorpio is a Fixed Sign. Woe betides the Ram that slights this proud, enigmatic
creature. Things will end so fast it will make your head spin. If you learn to
pace yourself, all the passion you want and more lies in the Scorpio depths.
Just don't let down by being shallow. Where Ram is inspirational, Scorpion is
calculated. Give each other freedom and a long leash with your action styles.
While the Ram can learn restraint and the Scorpion can be more reachable,
neither will really change! If you push your pet Scorpion, beware that poisonous
sting. If the jealous, controlling Scorpion tries to restrain the fiery Ram,
then an inspirational partner will be off to fresh fields. Both of you can be
jealous and possessive. But, once again, remember the word 'possessive' hits a
new level of meaning with Scorpio. Disloyalty will have serious consequences.
Together you are a formidable combination, one that can conquer the world if you
can negotiate your private pact.
