When Scorpio and Aquarius make a love match, it is a fusion of two very
different life philosophies and many very different needs. There is much chance
for friction here. Where Scorpio faces their inner emotional world directly and
with an intense energy, thinking deeply about the more hidden undercurrents of
life, Aquarius takes that same sort of energy and turns it outward. With their
unusual, idealistic and, above all else, very social outlook on life, Aquarius
seems an odd choice for the more introverted Scorpio. Aquarius needs a crowd to
feel stimulated, and they're always looking around the room for the next
interesting person to get to know. Scorpio, on the other hand, desires engaging,
probing and very intimate time with their romantic mates. This pair may seem to
have very little in common, but they both have such strong wills that, when
focused on their relationship, can get them what they need and want.
For each of you, the force of habit is strong. More than likely, you're both
determined, purposeful and persistent. This relationship is a test of wills.
Neither one of you is easily pushed, pulled or pressured. Once you commit to
each other, this relationship can become steady, stable and a powerhouse. Stand
firm on the conviction that you are working to overcome inertia together.
Both Scorpio and Aquarius are Fixed Signs, and when Fixed Signs meet, it's
intense and fascinating. But somewhere along the line a struggle for control
will be fought. Passionate Scorpio, a Water Sign, is ruled by forceful Mars, the
ancient god of war and seething Pluto, lord of the underworld. Aquarius, an Air
Sign, is ruled by structured Saturn, lord of karma and unpredictable Uranus
(sudden upheavals; unexpected changes). As Scorpion and Water Bearer dance the
dance, a cat is set among the pigeons!
The mask that hides Scorpio’s depths is a challenge for the detached Aquarian.
There's passion and eccentricity in the bedroom, but eventually irresistible
force collides with immovable object. The problem is to know which is which.
Scorpio is a strong individual, an extremely good friend, a formidable enemy,
and prone to intense likes and dislikes. Scorpio lives in the world of black and
white. Scorpio has little time for superficial people, places or things.
Aquarius is friendly and likes people. But if the people are emotionally needy,
then Aquarius needs space. Aquarius can march to the beat of a different
drummer. Aquarius can have an eccentric temperament and can be just a bit
strong, original, independent, unpredictable and contrary. Aquarius is well
suited to become an idea person.
Both Scorpio and Aquarius can be uncooperative and opinionated: They like things
to go their way, no questions asked! For this love match, though, 'their ways'
are very dissimilar. Scorpio is inquisitive, digging deeply into the hidden
meaning of things, always asking questions and wanting to know where things are
going and why. Aquarius is progressive and affable yet does not enjoy detail.
Scorpio may be enticed by their differences, as Aquarius shows them new,
exterior worlds but may end up frustrated trying to get answers from this
eccentric enigma. Aquarius does not welcome possessiveness, either, preferring
to belong to the world rather than one single person. But a stinging Scorpion
can be fiercely possessive, and they require more attention than an Aquarian
might be able to give. If Aquarius slows down and pays attention, they may find
the devotion Scorpio provides to be a great support.
Underneath, Scorpio is proud, private and guards their secrets. The amused and
sometimes bemused detachment of the Water Bearer may not take Scorpio as
seriously as you'd like. And the Air of Aquarius would rather share a secret
than keep one. Scorpio is a creature of mood, where the Water Bearer is a
creature of ideas and changing interest. You may find the constant shifts of
attention and ideas intriguing at first, but testing over time.
Scorpio prefers deep commitment, deep conversation and deep thoughts. If Scorpio
can't tell it like it is, Scorpio prefers to keep quiet. It should be mentioned
that Scorpio has quite a few secrets. Scorpio has forgiveness issues that tend
to make personal relationships challenging.
Aquarius can become a fabulous communicator, perceptive, intelligent and highly
intuitive. Aquarius is no snob or hypocrite. On the contrary, Aquarius has the
potential to develop tremendous social skills. The more Aquarius adopts the
"live and let live" attitude, the more friends Aquarius will make.
Scorpio likes to hold a lover close, being jealous and possessive. This will be
too much for the freedom-loving Water Bearer, who loves companionship and a
variety of friends. Aquarius is loyal but needs a long leash and time for
personal activities. If you see that running parallel with your need for
privacy, you can negotiate the tricky path of life together.
Scorpio has proven the ability to hold on. Scorpio's staying power is second to
none. Now Scorpio needs to learn to let go. Every day Scorpio needs to find
something to sell, give away, throw out or burn. If Scorpio wants to get the
most out of life, Scorpio needs to let go of old crap, literally, figuratively,
and most of all, psychologically.
Sex is a passionate pursuit for the Scorpion where the Water Bearer, though
enjoying it, rarely has the same appetite. Scorpio can brood or seethe over
slights, where Aquarius avoids conflict - as air signs do - favouring
detachment. If you erupt in all your volcanic glory, Scorpio, you'll lose your
diffident companion. Aquarius preaches tolerance. Scorpio rarely suffers fools
gladly.
The Planets Mars and Pluto rule Scorpio, and the Planets Saturn and Uranus rule
Aquarius. Mars is a revolutionary, aggressive and spirited masculine energy, and
Pluto enlightens these impulses and adds a re-birthing, cyclical quality. Saturn
is a cool, contained energy, and Uranus is about all things different and
unusual. Mars is emotional, reacting without thinking things through; such is
the nature of Scorpio. Saturn demands of Aquarius much hard work and discipline,
while Uranus gives them that forward thinking mind. A gentle Scorpio lover,
careful not to tether an Aquarius in too tightly can teach their mate about a
life based on emotional intuition, one that quiets the intellect sometimes in
favour of physical sensation. Understanding Aquarians can teach their serious
Scorpio mates to calm down, to detach themselves from uncontrollable situations
and to re-evaluate their goals if they get off course.
The Water Bearer is exceptional among Fixed Signs, loving change and variety,
where the general rule inclines Scorpio to stick with the familiar. Even so,
you're a risk-taker who likes to push boundaries. You're not above pricking the
Aquarian composure, trying to get a rise. Scorpion insight loves to cut to the
heart of things where the Water Bearer rises to the stratosphere of dreams.
If you've no common ground of commitment, you may struggle to make this work.
The match is challenging. You will need to look for other compatible features in
your charts to make it work. For those of you who can compromise and serve a
common cause, it can be a truly rewarding union.
